Men's Social Club
Brotherhood Through Shared Endeavor
Authentic connection forged in challenge, competition, and shared purpose. These gatherings are open to men in the coaching program and those who seek the company of men committed to excellence.
Modern men are starved for real community—not networking events, not social media followers, but genuine bonds formed through shared struggle and celebration. These groups exist because screens cannot replace the handshake, the shared meal, the friendly competition, or the silence around a campfire. Iron sharpens iron.
The Gatherings
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HEMA & Traditional Fencing
The Way of the Blade
Historical European Martial Arts and classical fencing instruction. Learn the sword arts of our ancestors - longsword, rapier, and saber. Build discipline through steel.
The camaraderie here is unmatched. These men push me to be better.
Schedule
- Day: [Day TBD]
- Time: [Time TBD]
- Duration: [Duration TBD]
Cost & Dues
- Dues: [Monthly Dues]
- Additional: [Drop-in Rate]
- Other: [Equipment Fee if applicable]
Rules & Requirements
- [Gear requirements - mask, gloves, etc.]
- [Experience level - beginners welcome / intermediate+]
- [Safety equipment provided or BYO]
- [Waiver requirement]
- [Dress code]
Gentlemen's Golf
The Long Game
Monthly rounds at premier courses. Golf as it was meant to be played - with intention, good company, and respect for the game. Competition sharpens character.
Best decision I made was joining. The networking alone is worth it.
Schedule
- Day: [Which Saturday/Sunday of month]
- Time: [Tee Time]
- Duration: [Approximate duration]
Cost & Dues
- Dues: [Monthly/Annual Dues]
- Additional: [Green fees - included or separate]
- Other: [Cart fee if applicable]
Rules & Requirements
- [Handicap requirements if any]
- [Dress code - collared shirts, etc.]
- [Pace of play expectations]
- [Guest policy]
- [Equipment requirements]
Iron Mile Brotherhood
Five Miles. No Excuses.
A monthly 5-mile run that tests your resolve. No headphones. No distractions. Just you, the road, and the men beside you. Suffering shared is suffering halved.
The accountability changed everything. I've never been fitter.
Schedule
- Day: [Which Saturday/Sunday of month]
- Time: [Start Time]
- Duration: [Expected finish window]
Cost & Dues
- Dues: [Monthly Dues or Free]
- Additional: [Per-run fee if any]
- Other: [N/A]
Rules & Requirements
- [Pace expectations - no man left behind / target pace]
- [No headphones policy]
- [Hydration requirements]
- [Weather cancellation policy]
- [Experience level required]
The Bowman's Circle
Focus. Breath. Release.
Traditional and compound archery in a focused, meditative environment. The bow teaches patience and presence. Every arrow is a lesson in letting go.
This practice has brought a calm to my life I didn't know I needed.
Schedule
- Day: [Which Saturday/Sunday of month]
- Time: [Time]
- Duration: [Duration]
Cost & Dues
- Dues: [Monthly Dues]
- Additional: [Range fees if separate]
- Other: [Equipment rental if available]
Rules & Requirements
- [Equipment provided or BYO]
- [Experience level - beginners welcome / etc.]
- [Safety briefing requirement]
- [Bow type restrictions if any]
- [Eye/ear protection requirements]
Wilderness Retreat
Return to What Matters
Two summer retreats and one winter expedition. Leave your phone behind. Reconnect with nature, with silence, with yourself. A dopamine detox for the modern soul. Part camping trip, part spiritual renewal.
I found parts of myself I'd buried under years of distraction.
Schedule
- Day: [Summer: Month, Winter: Month]
- Time: [Departure Time]
- Duration: [Number of nights]
Location
- [General Region/Park]
- [Meeting point for departure]
- [Exact location revealed upon registration]
Cost & Dues
- Dues: [Per-retreat cost]
- Additional: [Food included / bring your own]
- Other: [Gear list provided upon registration]
Rules & Requirements
- [No phones/electronics policy]
- [What to bring - gear list]
- [Physical fitness requirements]
- [Alcohol/substance policy]
- [Commitment to full duration required]
- [Confidentiality of shared experiences]
The Refined Table
Elegance in Company
Monthly dinners designed to refine your personal aesthetic and social presence. Learn to navigate formal settings with confidence. Break bread with men on the same journey toward excellence.
My confidence in professional settings has completely transformed.
Schedule
- Day: [Which week of month]
- Time: [Dinner Time]
- Duration: [Expected duration]
Cost & Dues
- Dues: [Monthly dues if any]
- Additional: [Dinner cost - prix fixe / separate checks]
- Other: [Included / separate]
Rules & Requirements
- [Dress code - business formal / black tie / etc.]
- [Punctuality expectations]
- [Phone policy during dinner]
- [Conversation guidelines]
- [Guest policy]
Smoke & Fellowship
The Art of Unhurried Company
No agenda. No objectives. Just good cigars, fine spirits, and the rare pleasure of unhurried conversation. Sometimes the most important thing men can do together is simply be present with one another.
The conversations here have shaped my thinking more than any book.
Schedule
- Day: [Which evening of month]
- Time: [Start Time]
- Duration: [Approximate duration]
Cost & Dues
- Dues: [Monthly dues if any]
- Additional: [Cigars provided / BYO / available for purchase]
- Other: [Drinks included / cash bar]
Rules & Requirements
- [Cigar etiquette expectations]
- [Dress code if any]
- [Guest policy]
- [Phone usage during gathering]
- [What is discussed here stays here]
Fight Night
Train Together. Watch Together.
Afternoon MMA sparring followed by evening UFC viewing. Test yourself on the mats with your brothers, then break bread and watch the pros do what we aspire to. Combat sports forge bonds that conversation alone cannot.
Nothing builds trust like controlled combat. These are my brothers now.
Schedule
- Day: [UFC Event Saturdays]
- Time: [Sparring start time] / [Main card start time]
- Duration: [Full day event]
Cost & Dues
- Dues: [Monthly dues if any]
- Additional: [Food/drinks - potluck / provided / BYOB]
- Other: N/A
Rules & Requirements
- [Experience level required for sparring]
- [Required gear - gloves, mouthguard, etc.]
- [Sparring intensity expectations - controlled/light]
- [Waiver requirement]
- [Non-sparring participation welcome]
- [Conduct during viewing - respect for the sport]
The Muse's Circle
Cultivating the Soul Through Beauty
Opera, theater, symphony, and the performing arts. We gather to support local artists and immerse ourselves in humanity's highest creative expressions. A man who cannot appreciate beauty is incomplete. These evenings cultivate the artist within each of us.
I hadn't been to the symphony in years. Now I can't imagine life without it.
Schedule
- Day: [Varies by performance]
- Time: [Performance time]
- Duration: [Evening event]
Location
- [Venue varies - local theaters, concert halls]
- [Meeting point or venue address]
- [City, State]
Cost & Dues
- Dues: [Monthly dues if any]
- Additional: [Pre-show dinner - optional / included]
- Other: N/A
Rules & Requirements
- [Dress code - smart casual / formal depending on venue]
- [Arrival time expectations - pre-show gathering]
- [Phone policy during performance]
- [Post-show discussion encouraged]
- [Guest policy]
- [RSVP requirements for ticket coordination]